Conflict resolution is a way for two or more parties to find a peaceful solution to a disagreement among them. 


The disagreement may be personal, financial, political, or emotional. When a dispute arises, often the best course of action is negotiation to resolve the disagreement.


There are many solutions people choose to consider the best when they are angry and  some being:

1. Fighting each other.

2. Chopping each other's body parts.

3. Killing yourself either by hanging or taking overdose, etc.

4. Breaking household items.

5. Beating the children.


"The list is endless"


So what is my unique advise to this situation in order to end or to reduce the pain.


Possible and best solutions is not to involve your marriage Counselors or friends or neighbors they also have their own issues.


Marriage is a secret. Keep the secrets between you and your loved one. Never tell weaknesses of either of you, you will destroy yourself.


NB: when you see things are tough avoid the 5 Points above. Prevention is better than cure. Separation should be the first best step. Stay apart for sometimes so that your hearts should normalize and cool down. This will help to make informed decision and not rushing into divorcing. 


Divorcing is a last resort and not a priority.


*Do not leave your husband because he is poor. You don't know what God has for him tommorow.


* Do not leave your wife because she is not beautiful. Beauty is about clothes and makeup. Don't cheat yourselves life is not a joke.


*Stop abusing your loved ones because you have new boyfriend or new girlfriend.


"Are you not surprised why the new girlfriend is not yet married or why the new boyfriend is not yet married" Make a good research before abusing the one you have because you may loose golden material.